My Option About the Rights of Abortion or Anything Like It.

So do you want your rights back or not taken away from you? Guess what you still have them if you vote. You have the power to vote who goes into office: as mayor, senator, congress, president and local laws. If you do not like what they are doing, let them know, write to them. As Americans we have this right.

I am getting sick of the politicians bring up the issue about abortions and women’s health. I am sick of the promise that you will make abortion illegal or find ways around it. GUESS WHAT, IT IS NOT YOUR BODY OR YOUR FAMILY. They should not have any control over your body any way or form. GOD gave us free will to do what we want and to think what we want. Do not bring in that it is murder, so you rather murder the mother, if the child that is growing in her will kill her. Hmm, some have never thought of that, or I never heard anyone point it out.

There is a reason and it is not your right to judge us. That is between me and GOD. You have no right to take away the rights that other women before me fought to allow me to have theses rights. I never had or will have abortion; it is hard enough for me to just try to conceive a child. I am fighting for my rights and any other women, who have to make this decision in their life. Also I am fighting for the rights of my sisters, aunts, friends, nieces and future daughters.

So what brought this one, the news and hearing politicians talking about that this is what the people want. I love to hear all some who would talk against them. I want them to be heard and let them know we are not going back to the Stone Age. We are moving forward, that what humans do move forward. That is why we learn history, to not repeat or prevent the past from repeating. Remember we got this far do not let them think they can take us back to good old past.

Reflection of 2011

In 2011, many things happen to my family and myself. First, I was laid off from my job of six years at the title insurance company. I enjoyed being a at home Mom, with my son, but a realize that 10 years of office experience with no college degree will not get me the job I wanted.  Since the unemployment department allows people to go back to a two year college and has to be a specific degree.  I decided to go back to college. But at the same time, I was able to find a temporary job with Planar Systems in the Reseller Support department.

Then I got busy, working and going college full time. I decided on getting my Associates in Business Management because I would like to have a job with more responsibilities. Then my husband was gone for two weeks on business trip.  Since I was working full time and going to college at nights, I knew what it felt like being a single mom. 

After Spring term, I was offered my old job back and I took it. The reason being is that it had more opportunities to have a permanent job and have benefits. Since being laid off in January and losing great benefits, it is a goal of my husband and I to find better job with great benefits. I have been going to college and working ever since.

But emotionally, it has been a year of discovering who I am and what I want to do. Before this year, I knew what I wanted but never really did anything about it.  I guess turning 30 does that to some people. How I feel about my birthday is a sore subject and it nothing to do with the age thing. Anyhow, I still feel depress during Christmas season.  I do not know what it is, but right after Thanksgiving til mid-January early February, I am a stick in the mud.  It is hard for me to be happy. This year I really tried to focus on making it better.

Other than that I was trying to figure out what I want to do. Every thing from spiritual, emotional, to physical. Every time I hit a low or pray for guidance I get a new idea or way at looking at things. I have been grateful that I have grown more and learn more in this last year than I did in the last 10 years. So I still pray to God that every year will be happier and better than the last.

This Year's Goals

Most people do new year resolutions or live by a word for the year.  Some believe that write down or make a piece of art of your goals will make them come true.  I believe in writing them down but also doing something about it too. This year I am going to post my goals here but also I have next to my bed so I can see them every day, and help me make wise discisions in keeping the goals I want to achive.

I take a couple of weeks to decide on what goals I want to do for the year.  I reflect on the phyical changes, mential health and spritual. I try to make ten different goals, and try to have a few for each area of my life. I have been doing a lot of reading and praying to decide what I need to better myself and care for myself. So I would like to share my goals.

My goals for this year are the following:

~ No Candy, Cookies, Soda or sweeties except special occasions.
~ Excercise for 30 mins a day.
~ Have a baby.
~ Weigh myself every week.
~ Stop biting my nails.
~ Pray every morning, and read a chapter of the Bible.
~ Do something special for a friend or family member every week.
~ Check Google + and Facebook once a day.

So what do you for your goals? Do you do this once a year or a few times a year?

I plan to do if I succeed is to continue with a goal and review and add more goals as need through out the year.

Good luck to your goals.